I very rarely get jealous. And flirting, conversation, these personal intimate moments that would drive most people crazy. When we first started swinging, the first time I saw her with someone else, it struck me how not jealous I was. That concerned me for a tic. Why does it have to mean anything? My lack of jealousy was not a commentary on my relationship and the quality inherent or lack thereof in it.
Login name. Remember me. Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters. I am the female part of a married couple and really could use some advice. My husband and I have been married for as long as we have been swinging. He was in the lifestyle for many years before he met me so I knew this was something he enjoyed. I enjoy parts of the lifestyle: the sexy clothes and the warm atmosphere but I don't always enjoy the actual swinging component.
One of the more common and frightening feelings associated with starting a lifestyle journey is jealousy. Society often encourages jealousy in relationships. Think about all those rom-com movies where the guy has no idea how much he cares until he sees the object of his desire being swept off her feet by a new suitor.
I was asked this pointed question by a friend of mine over a cold beer one evening. We had been discussing the latest libertine adventure of Aliki and me. He was not making fun of me.